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Annie’s Mailbox: Woman sick of husband’s ex

Dear Annie: I am a 24-year-old mother of a 9-month-old boy and a stepmother to three older children.

My husband’s ex treats me like the third wheel. She walks into my house without knocking and goes through my stepchildren’s drawers and takes things.

She won’t even look at me, let alone talk to me.



To top it off, my husband refuses to stand up for me. He kisses the ground this woman walks on, even though she was the one who initiated the divorce.

Whenever she calls, he drops everything and goes to her aid.



When her car broke down, he gave her one of ours, and I ended up stranded at work.

She constantly interrupts the few moments I have with my husband and son by calling and texting and asking him to do stuff.

She rarely has her children with her, even though she gets paid a substantial amount of child support.

And, whatever she buys for them, she asks us to reimburse half.

I started going to counseling just to deal with the way my husband treats me because of her.

How can I get him to stop doing everything she asks? I’m tired of feeling like

— A Third Wheel

Dear Third Wheel: Your husband has put his ex-wife first in your marriage, and this is grossly unfair to you.

The fact that she initiated the divorce did not make him bitter — it made him crave her approval. He needs to understand his motivations for being at her beck and call and how this undermines his marriage.

Ask if he would be willing to attend one of your counseling sessions. It could help a great deal.

Dear Annie: I read the letter from “Losing it in Canada,” the parents of two children who chew with their mouths open.

I suggest giving each child 25 pennies at the beginning of each meal. Every time the child needs to be corrected, he must give up a penny by putting it in the middle of the table.

At the end of the meal, whatever is left will be converted into nickels, dimes or a quarter, which looks much better to them than pennies.

They will soon realize they don’t want to part with their pennies.

When they no longer need correcting, reward them with a special outing.

— Temecula, Calif.

Dear Calif: Thanks for the great idea.

Several readers wrote in with suggestions to correct a child’s table manners, and we will print more in future columns.

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